Brain on Porn (Social #2) by DeYtH Banger (motivational books to read txt) 📕

I’m watching someone else having sex or it’s not even my penis; I feel dissociated from the experience. And when they have that they have this brain-penis mismatch created where the brain is simply not feeling pleasure even if they may or may not achieve an erection.”

 

7. Researchers have found that even moderate porn use was correlated with having a lowered response to sexual cues in the brain. Although the research didn’t conclusively show that porn had caused the changes, that was the theory the researchers found most likely. They even subtitled their study “The Brain on Porn”.

8. When a person is continuously strengthening the brain maps linking

sexual excitement to porn, those maps enlarge and can crowd out maps linking sexual excitement to a real person or to real sex.56
9. Researchers in Italy took brain scans of men with ED for which there was no obvious physical cause. They found that their brains showed reduced gray matter in the reward center (which means reduced dopamine signaling) and the sexual centers of the hypothalamus.57 Porn is associated with having reduced gray matter.

10. Doctors and past porn users have found that leaving porn behind can fix erectile-dysfunction problems.

Porn and Marriage

1. Frequent exposure to porn is associated with diminished trust in intimate partners; increased risk of
developing a negative body image, especially for women; acceptance of promiscuity as a normal state of interaction; beginning to view love in a cynical manner; belief that superior sexual satisfaction is attainable without having affection for one’s partner; belief that marriage is sexually confining; and belief that raising children and having a family is an unattractive prospect.

2. “To add insult to injury, many wives are directly or indirectly blamed for their husband’s pornography use by her spouse, family, or confidant. Many women I have worked with clinically describe stinging insinuations that the marriage must be unsatisfying, that she has ‘let herself go’ and is no longer as physically attractive as she once was, that she is closed-minded to new sexual experiences, or that she is overly focused on her children and not attending to her husband’s needs.

Too often the woman’s experience of the marital relationship and the historical context of his pornography habit become conveniently dismissed as irrelevant by those seeking to assign blame to her.”
3. Among attorneys at the November 2002 meeting of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, 62 percent said the Internet had been a significant factor in divorces they had handled during that year. Of those cases, 56 percent involved one person having an obsessive interest in Internet porn.

4. In a study of wives of sex addicts for whom pornography use was an issue in their relationship with their spouses, 68.18 percent had experienced a form of isolation (emotional, spiritual, physical, or social) during the course of dealing with the problem.63 “What was interesting was that many

of the women reported having strong networks of support and family ties, but still described being isolated due to the shameful nature of this particular problem. This suggests women who are high-functioning and well-supported in other areas of life may still be at risk for isolation, delayed help-seeking behavior, and/or prolonged psychological struggle because the problem is so shaming and public awareness of it is in its infancy. In addition, isolation can put women at risk for heightened psychological stress and turmoil if they are used to receiving support in other areas of life, thereby making this population more vulnerable overall.”

5. Many women who learn of a partner’s compulsive pornography use or other sexual addictions experience psychological effects, such as fatigue, changes

in appetite and libido, and other signs of anxiety and depression, such as suicidal tendencies.
6. A study that looked at how couples were impacted by cybersex addiction found cybersex addiction to be a major contributing factor to separation and divorce among affected couples. While several online sexual activities were listed in the study, pornography use was involved in every case.

7. A study of 100 women who were or had been in relationships with male pornography users found that women in married relationships commonly view Internet pornography consumption as a substantial threat to the marriage. Their distress increased according to how frequent they believed their husband’s online sexual activities were, and their feelings were not significantly influenced by religious beliefs
Marriages in which one partner has a pornography problem or sexual compulsion are commonly plagued by problems with diminished intimacy and sensitivity, anxiety, secrecy, isolation, relationship dysfunction, and decreased financial security due to the risk of job loss or related debts.

9. Adult exposure to pornography is associated with greater acceptance of having affairs for married individuals.69
10. In a study that examined marital rape, research found that there was a correlation between pornography use and the most sadistic marital rapes.

Porn and Adolescence

1. Adolescents report that pornography influences adolescent sexual behavior
 It’s easier for someone to recover from having his sexual tastes altered when those altered tastes were acquired as an adult than it is for someone who acquired problematic sexual tastes during his critical periods of development in youth and adolescence.

3. A study of Greek youth found that adolescents exposed to pornography may develop “unrealistic attitudes about sex and misleading attitudes toward relationships”.
4. Five studies conducted on Swedish youth found that young men who regularly consume pornography are more likely to have had anal intercourse with a girl and to have tried acts seen in pornography, and that girls who have seen pornography are more likely to have had anal sex. Most of the young women in the studies did not enjoy anal intercourse and did not want to do it again.

A study that looked at middle-school youth found that exposure to pornography predicted perpetration of sexual harassment in boys, more permissive sexual norms, engaging in oral sex, and engaging in intercourse in high school.
6. Longitudinal studies have linked heavy exposure to sexual mainstream media with earlier sexual activity, earlier coital behavior, and increased risk for unplanned pregnancy78 and sexually transmitted disease.
7. A 2014 study in Australia conducted by the Burnet Institute’s Centre for Population Health found that weekly porn use was significantly associated with early sexual behavior, inconsistent condom use, sexting, and anal sex.

8. “Not only younger children, but even young teenagers are generally not sophisticated enough to differentiate between fantasy and reality. They learn direct lessons from pornography, with no filter, and with no concept of exaggeration, irony, or affect. They learn what women supposedly look like, how they should act, and what they are supposed to do. They learn what women ‘want’ and how men can give it to them. Watching pornography, boys and girls learn that women always want sex and that sex is divorced from relationships. They learn that men can have whomever they want and that women will respond the way men want them to. They learn that anal sex is the norm and instant female orgasm is to be expected. And they absorb these lessons avidly, emulating people they perceive to be role models.”

9. “It’s sad that boys who are initiated to sex through these images become indoctrinated in a way that can potentially stay with them for the rest of their lives. . . . Boys learn that you have sex in spite of your feelings, not because of your feelings. Meanwhile, girls are taught that you don’t have intimacy without relationships.”
10. “Porn shuts down a boy’s natural feeling, as it places little value on intimacy, empathy or respect of partners in pornographic material. A growing body of research also shows that viewing porn is likely to make boys more sexually aggressive, to do whatever they feel they can get away with, and to want to act out what they have seen.”

 

 

 

 

 

Chapter 6 - Mind Fucked

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The most fucked up thing is watching all day.... all night and hiding behind the lines...

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Hiding from society and all day masturbating...! 

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