Etiquette by Emily Post (thriller novels to read txt) 📕
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teness implies all give and little or no return, it is well to recall Coleridge's definition of a gentleman: "We feel the gentlemanly character present with us," he said, "whenever, under all circumstances of social intercourse, the trivial, not less than the important, through the whole detail of his manners and deportment, and with the ease of a habit, a person shows respect to others in such a way as at the same time implies, in his own feelings, and habitually, an assured anticipation of reciprocal respect from them to himself. In short, the gentlemanly character arises out of the feeling of equality acting as a habit, yet flexible to the varieties of rank, and modified without being disturbed or superseded by them." Definitions of a gentleman are numerous, and some of them famous; but we do not find such copiousness for choice in definitions of a lady. Perhaps it has been understood all along that the admirable and just characteristics of a gentleman should of necessity be those also of a lady, with the
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tag="{http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml}a">231-237.
Dinner coat, 42.
Dishes, how to present, 206.
Dishing, 235.
Divorce, 507, 509.
Divorced woman, name of, 459;
visiting card of, 78.
Doctor, how to introduce, 5;
visiting cards of, 78.
Don'ts for débutantes, 284;
for a hostess at country house, 431-435;
for setting the table, 199-200;
for writing a letter, 493, 502-503, 505.
Double cards, 79.
Drawing-room, 94, 184, 214, 224-225.
Dress. See: Clothes.
Drinking, 573-574.
Drinks. See: Beverages.
Duke, how to address, 608.
Earl, how to address, 608.
Eating difficult foods, 223, 582-585.
Eggs, how to eat, 574-584.
Elbows on the table, 585-586.
Elevator, removal of gentleman's hat in, 22.
Elopements, 301.
Engaged couples, afternoon tea in honor of, 168;
dinner for, 305-306;
entertainments for, 304;
photographs of in newspapers, 304;
visits of, 32.
See also: Fiancée.
Engagements, chapter On, 299.311;
announcement of, 89;
congratulations on, 481-482;
letters to relatives on, 303.
Engraved cards of thanks, 474;
pew cards, 103;
visiting cards, 73-76.
English clothes, 553, 561-562.
Entertainments, introductions at, 10;
service at, 159-164;
after dinner, 225;
at camp, 445-446;
at country house, 430, 433-434;
for engaged couples, 304.
Envelopes, 450, 454.
Escorts, 31-32, 594-595.
Etiquette, scope of, 3.
European travel, 604-616.
Evening clothes, 144, 281, 318, 549, 557, 559, 563-564, 603.
Expenses, clothing, 543-545, 553-557;
funeral, 390-391;
wedding, 317, 329, 342-344, 376-378.
Ex-President of the United States, how to introduce, 5.
Family affairs, conversation about, 49, 506-507, 509, 592.
Fare, payment of, 31.
Fashion, 541-543, 557-558.
Father's consent to an engagement, 301.
Fiancée, asking invitations for to a ball, 253;
etiquette for, 308;
gifts to by groom-elect, 310-311;
visits of, 95;
visits to, 88, 303.
Finger bowl, 208-209, 585.
Finger food, 582-585.
Flower girls, 330, 358.
Flowers, cards with, 79;
for débutante, 277-278;
for fiancée, 310-311;
for funerals, 394-395;
for the guest room, 417;
for the table, 193, 195, 591;
for a wedding, 315-316, 348-349.
Folding a note, 454.
Food, at an afternoon tea, 167-170, 172-173;
at a ball supper, 256-257;
in camp, 444-445;
for country house guests, 418, 427-428;
for formal dinner, 184, 188-190, 232-235;
for luncheon, 243-244;
on a train, 592-593;
for a wedding breakfast, 365, 368;
how to eat difficult foods, 223, 582-585.
Footmen, house, 144-146.
Foreign language, 610-612.
Foreigners, shaking hands with, 20;
titled, how to address, 608-609;
how to announce as guests, 215;
letters to, 490.
Fork, 196-197, 203-204;
use of, 573-575, 584-585.
Forms of address, 455, 486-489, 608-609.
Frock coat, 332, 566, 569.
Full dress, 35, 42, 569.
Funerals, chapter on, 387-409.
Furnishings, of a camp, 443;
of a dining-room, 192-194;
of a guest room, 414-417.
Furniture, 132-135.
Games, 12;
outdoor, 46-47;
and sports, chapter on, 524-529.
See also: Entertainments.
Garden party, 174-175;
dress for, 556.
Gentleman, The, 506-508.
Gentleman's stick, 22, 143, 45, 358, 360, 564.
Gifts, Christmas, 468;
wedding, 319-323;
to baby, 382, 468;
to bride by groom, 344;
to bridesmaids, 336;
to engaged couple, 306;
to fiancée by groom-elect, 310-311;
to wedding ushers, 337;
of tickets for balls, concerts, etc., 43.
Girls. See: Young girl.
Gloves, 220, 246, 333-334, 344, 357, 544, 552, 554-556, 563;
removal of when shaking hands, 20;
bridegroom's, 333;
white, when worn by a gentleman, 35.
Godparents, 380-382.
Golf, 527.528;
invitation to, 128;
clubs, 517.
Good-bys. See: Leave taking.
Governor, close of letter to, 487;
how to address, 486;
how to announce as a guest, 214;
how to introduce, 487.
Greetings, chapter on, 18-21;
abroad, 606-607;
to mourners, 399.
Guest cards, 417-418;
lists, 186-187;
rooms, 413-417, 425-427.
Guests, announcement of, 161-162, 214-215;
introduction of, 11-12, 487, 489;
selection of, 72;
to country house, 419-420;
to débutante's party, 280;
to formal dinner, 178, 185-186;
to a wedding, 312-314;
tipping by, 426-427.
Guests, distinguished, 11, 216.
Guests at an afternoon tea, 170;
at a christening, 380, 383;
at a country house, 410-412, 429-431, 435-439, 470;
at a club, 520-523;
at a formal dinner, 184, 210-212;
at a garden party, 175;
at luncheon, 240;
in opera box, 35;
on private car, 439;
on yacht, 439.
See also: Precedence;—Seating.
Handwriting, 448-449, 460.
Hanging the bell, 390.
Hat, 35, 245-246, 357, 544, 549, 555-556, 564, 566;
lifting of, 23-24;
removal of by a gentleman, 22-23, 25.
Headdress, 42, 319, 347, 544, 546-547, 552.
Healths to the bride, 337;
to an engaged couple, 305.
"Hello" as a greeting, 19-20.
Home, manners in the, 587-592.
Hospitality at parties, 175-176;
in a country house, chapter on, 410-439.
Host, bachelor as, 295-298;
payment of restaurant checks by, 32;
introductions by, 12;
at a ball, 260;
at a country house, 429;
at a dinner, 184, 211-212, 217;
at a garden party, 175.
Hostess, manners of, 218;
payment of restaurant checks by, 32;
presentation to at a dance or at the opera, 12.
Hostess at an afternoon tea, 167-170;
at a ball, 258-259;
in a country house, 411-413, 431-435;
at a dinner, 177-184, 210-212, 215-220, 227;
at a garden party, 175;
at a luncheon, 240.
Hotels, 596-597.
Hour, dinner, 201;
wedding, 314, 318-319;
week-end party, 411.
House, the well-appointed, chapter on, 131-164;
formal entertaining in, 159-164;
furniture in, 132-135;
organization of, 145-155;
servants in, 155-159;
service in, 135-145.
House party, introductions at, 10;
invitations to, 124, 130;
bachelor's, 296-298;
camp, 440-447,
country house, 411-439.
House suit, 565.
House wedding, 373-375.
Housekeeper, 140-141.
Housemaid, 148, 425-426.
Hunting clubs, 517.
Husband and wife, 54, 214, 413, 507, 509, 589-591.
Ice cream as dessert, 207-208.
Initials, in the signature of a letter, 458;
on visiting cards, 76-77;
on wedding presents, 322-323.
"Introduce," when used in introductions, 4.
Introductions, chapter on, 4-17;
greetings at, 18-19;
letters of, 16-17, 475-478;
at a ball, 10, 16;
at bridge, 12;
at a dinner, 10, 12-13;
at a house party;
at a luncheon, 9-10;
at the opera, 36;
on a steamer, 601-602;
on the street, 13;
at a wedding, 11, 363;
of guests of honor, 11;
of important personages, 487, 489;
of titled foreigners, 608-609;
of a visitor to a club, 520-522;
self, 12, 602.
Invalids, return visits of, 96;
visits to, 88, 93.
Invitations, chapter on, 98-130;
asking for, 117.118;
cards in connection with, 83-84, 87, 118, 124, 168, 169;
by a chaperon, 291;
by telephone, 128-130, 238-239, 380;
to an at home with dancing, 112-116;
to a bachelor's party, 297-298;
to a ball or dance, 112-116, 124, 128, 251-254, 259-260;
to a breakfast, 238-239;
to bridge, 124, 128-129;
to camp, 127;
to children, 459-460;
to a christening, 380;
to country house, 419;
to a dinner, 119, 124.125, 128, 188;
to golf, 128;
to a luncheon, 120, 125-126, 238-239;
to a picnic, 124-128;
to a house party, 124, 130;
to a reception, 119;
to theater, 38-39;
to a wedding, 98-109, 111, 312-314;
to a wedding anniversary, 110.
See also: Guests, selection Of.
Jewelry, 144, 544, 546-548, 567, 612;
for the
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