Life Is Not a Stage by Florence Henderson (big screen ebook reader .TXT) 📕

had done Pilates training for two years with my trainer Kim Smith, so my core muscles were strong. But once you do a new dance, you find out quickly that there are lots of muscles you never knew you had.

I would have loved to have stayed in the competition longer, but it felt good that I met both the challenge and my fears about doing the show. Those fears revolved around the fact that it is a competition, and not being a real dancer, I knew that I would have to work harder. I was also wondering if I could meet the physical and mental challenges. Getting your feet to move is not as simple as being an actor learning your lines. It’s a whole different ball game. If I make a mistake in my one-woman show, I always find a way to have fun with it, but when you have a dance partner, it throws everything off. On two occasions the audience was cheering so loudly at the beginning of our number that I couldn’t hear the cue to begin the first step.

Luckily, I was blessed to have Corky Ballas as my partner. I knew he was a great teacher and had been a world champion many times. He was very patient. When I’d mess up, he’d say, “Florence Agnes Henderson, you know this, now come on!” That’s what I get for telling him my middle name. He sounded just like my mother.

Corky was fifty, so he worked intelligently and knew my body well after a short time. He put me through a routine depending on what movements were required in a particular dance. For the rhumba, we did deep knee bends and varied the pace on the treadmill and did sideways and backwards movements too, before the hours of actual rehearsal would begin. “Okay, that’s enough for today,” he would tell me when it was time to stop.

I never wanted to quit. “Can’t we do it one more time?”

“What’s the point if you injure yourself?”

There was also pressure because the others had three weeks to learn their routine for the first show, whereas I got started late and only had five days to prepare. It was scary to learn that dance that quickly. I care a lot about what I do. At night, I would lie awake going over the steps because it wasn’t something I do all the time. “Oh my God, I don’t know this well enough. What am I going to do?” That insecurity made me feel again how it was when I was a young kid starting out in the business. I’m always saying, “I could have done better.” I’ve always been that way, very self-critical and never satisfied with anything when it comes to my performance.

Dancing with the Stars explains a lot about why I am still so passionate and excited about my career and why each day is such an adventure.

My formula is simple: Stay open to the unexpected. Learn to let go of your self-limiting thinking. Tomorrow, something unexpected is going to happen that is exciting. Let the experiences come. Don’t be afraid to say yes a lot. Be grateful and forgiving. Stay flexible. Know that there’s always another way. Keep going and never stop pushing the envelope of your potential. And stay courageous in your quest for inner peace and a life full of love.

Lastly, in case you’re wondering what happened to that galloping horse, here’s an update. The horse is alive and well. The horse still loves to run. It still enjoys being in the game, but with one important distinction. It doesn’t have to win every race.

Contents

Title Page

Dedication

Acknowledgments

Introduction: It Will Never Be Noticed on a Galloping Horse

Chapter 1: The Faith of a Child

Chapter 2: Singing for My Supper

Chapter 3: Growing Up Fast

Chapter 4: Wide-Eyed and Confident

Chapter 5: Wish You Were Here

Chapter 6: Hitting the Road

Chapter 7: The Big Break

Chapter 8: Yes, I Was a Virgin!

Chapter 9: The Today Show Girl

Chapter 10: Do Re Mi

Chapter 11: The Girl Who Came to Supper Loses Her Appetite

Chapter 12: The Pill

Chapter 13: The “No Door Act”

Chapter 14: Detours and Other Digressions

Chapter 15: Hollywood…Finally

Chapter 16: Brady-monium

Chapter 17: Good Help Is Hard to Find…

Chapter 18: Days of Wine and Roses…and Clam Chowder and Chicken

Chapter 19: Cutting Through the Layers to the Truth

Chapter 20: D-Day

Chapter 21: The Dragonflies

Chapter 22: The Horse Stays in the Game

Photographs

Copyright

Copyright © 2011 by F.H.B. Productions, Inc.

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Unless otherwise stated, all photos are from the Florence Henderson Collection.

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First eBook Edition: September 2011

ISBN: 978-1-455-50491-6