The Child and Childhood in Folk-Thought by Alexander F. Chamberlain (book recommendations based on other books .txt) 📕

may be divided into two categories. The first is represented by our “the doctor brought it,” “God sent it,” and the “van Moor” of the peasantry of North Friesland, which may signify either “from the moor,” or “from mother.” The second consists of renascent myths of bygone ages, distorted, sometimes, it is true, and recast. As men, in the dim, prehistoric past, ascribed to their first progenitors a celestial, a terrestrial, a subterranean, a subaqueous origin, a coming into being from animals, birds, insects, trees, plants, rocks, stones, etc.,—for all were then akin,—so, after long centuries have rolled by, father, mother, nurse, older brother or sister, speaking of the little one in whom they see their stock renewed, or their kinship widened, resurrect and regild the old fables and rejuvenate and reanimate the lore that lay sunk beneath the threshold of racial consciousness. Once more “the child is father of the man”; his course begins from that same spring whence the first races of men had their remotest origins. George Macdonald, in the first lines of his poem on “Baby” (337. 182):—

 

“Where did you come from, baby dear? Out of the everywhere into here,”

 

has expressed a truth of folk-lore, for there is scarcely a place in the “everywhere” whence the children have not been fabled to come. Children are said to come from heaven (Germany, England, America, etc.); from the sea (Denmark); from lakes, ponds, rivers (Germany, Austria, Japan); from moors and sand-hills (northeastern Germany); from gardens (China); from under the cabbage-leaves (Brittany, Alsace), or the parsley-bed (England); from sacred or hollow trees, such as the ash, linden, beech, oak, etc. (Germany, Austria); from inside or from underneath rocks and stones (northeastern Germany, Switzerland, Bohemia, etc.). It is worthy of note how the topography of the country, its physiographic character, affects these beliefs, which change with hill and plain, with moor and meadow, seashore and inland district. The details of these birth-myths may be read in Ploss (326. I. 2), Schell (343), Sundermann (366). Specially interesting are the Kindersee (“child-lake”), Kinderbaum (“child-tree”), and Kinderbrunnen (“child-fountain”) of the Teutonic lands,—offering analogies with the “Tree of Life” and the “Fountain of Eternal Youth” of other ages and peoples; the Titistein, or “little children’s stone,” and the Kindertruog (“child’s trough”) of Switzerland, and the “stork-stones” of North Germany.

Dr. Haas, in his interesting little volume of folk-lore from the island of Rügen, in the Baltic, records some curious tales about the birth of children. The following practice of the children in that portion of Germany is significant: “Little white and black smooth stones, found on the shore, are called ‘stork-stones.’ These the children are wont to throw backwards over their heads, asking, at the same time, the stork to bring them a little brother or sister” (466 a. 144). This recalls vividly the old Greek deluge-myth, in which we are told, that, after the Flood, Deucalion was ordered to cast behind him the “bones of his mother.” This he interpreted to mean the “stones,” which seemed, as it were, the “bones” of “mother-earth.” So he and his wife Pyrrha picked up some stones from the ground and cast them over their shoulders, whereupon those thrown by Deucalion became men, those thrown by Pyrrha, women. Here belongs, also, perhaps, the Wallachian custom, mentioned by Mr. Sessions (who thinks it was “probably to keep evil spirits away”), in accordance with which “when a child is born every one present throws a stone behind him.”

On the island of Rügen erratic blocks on the seashore are called Adeborsteine, “stork-stones,” and on such a rock or boulder near Wrek in Wittow, Dr. Haas says “the stork is said to dry the little children, after he has fetched them out of the sea, before he brings them to the mothers. The latter point out these blocks to their little sons and daughters, telling them how once they were laid upon them by the stork to get dry.” The great blocks of granite that lie scattered on the coast of Jasmund are termed Schwansteine, “swan-stones,” and, according to nursery-legend, the children to be born are shut up in them. When a sister or brother asks: “Where did the little swan-child“—for so babies are called—“come from?” the mother replies: “From the swan-stone. It was opened with a key, and a little swan-child taken out.” The term “swan-child” is general in this region, and Dr. Haas is inclined to think that the swan-myth is older than the stork-myth (466 a. 143, 144).

Curious indeed is the belief of the Hidatsa Indians, as reported by Dr. Matthews, in the “Makadistati, or house of infants.” This is described as “a cavern near Knife River, which, they supposed, extended far into the earth, but whose entrance was only a span wide. It was resorted to by the childless husband or the barren wife. There are those among them who imagine that in some way or other their children come from the Makadistati; and marks of contusion on an infant, arising from tight swaddling or other causes, are gravely attributed to kicks received from his former comrades when he was ejected from his subterranean home”

(433. 516).

 

In Hesse, Germany, there is a children’s song (326. I. 9):—

 

Bimbam, Glöckchen, Da unten steht ein Stöckchen, Da oben steht ein golden Haus, Da gucken viele schöne Kinder raus.

 

The current belief in that part of Europe is that “unborn children live in a very beautiful dwelling, for so long as children are no year old and have not yet looked into a mirror, everything that comes before their eyes appears to be gold.” Here folk-thought makes the beginnings of human life a real golden age. They are Midases of the eye, not of the touch.

 

Children’s Questions and Parents’ Answers.

Another interesting class of “parents’ lies” consists in the replies to, or comments upon, the questionings and remarks of children about the ordinary affairs of life. The following examples, selected from Dirksen’s studies of East-Frisian Proverbs, will serve to indicate the general nature and extent of these.

1. When a little child says, “I am hungry,” the mother sometimes answers, “Eat some salt, and then you will be thirsty, too.”

2. When a child, seeing its mother drink tea or coffee, says, “I’m thirsty,” the answer may be, “If you’re thirsty, go to Jack ter Host; there’s a cow in the stall, go sit under it and drink.” Some of the variants of this locution are expressed in very coarse language (431. I.

22).

 

3. If a child asks, when it sees that its parent is going out, “Am I not going, too?” the answer is, “You are going along, where nobody has gone, to Poodle’s wedding,” or “You are going along on Stay-here’s cart.” A third locution is, “You are going along to the Kükendell fair” (Kükendell being a part of Meiderich, where a fair has never been held). In Oldenburg the answer is: “You shall go along on Jack-stay-at-home’s (Janblievtohûs) cart.” Sometimes the child is quieted by being told, “I’ll bring you back a little silver nothing (enn silwer Nickske)” (431. I. 33).

4. If, when he is given a slice of bread, he asks for a thinner one, the mother may remark, “Thick pieces make fat bodies” (431. I. 35).

5. When some one says in the hearing of the father or mother of a child that it ought not to have a certain apple, a certain article of clothing, or the like, the answer is, “That is no illegitimate child.” The locution is based upon the fact that illegitimate children do not enjoy the same rights and privileges as those born in wedlock (431. I.

42).

 

6. Of children’s toys and playthings it is sometimes said, when they are very fragile, “They will last from twelve o’clock till midday”

(431.1.43).

 

7. When any one praises her child in the presence of the mother, the latter says, “It’s a good child when asleep” (431. I. 51).

8. In the winter-time, when the child asks its mother for an apple, the latter may reply, “the apples are piping in the tree,” meaning that there are no longer any apples on the tree, but the sparrows are sitting there, crying and lamenting. In Meiderich the locution is “Apples have golden stems,” i.e. they are rare and dear in winter-time (431. I. 75).

9. When the child says, “I can’t sit down,” the mother may remark, “Come and sit on my thumb; nobody has ever fallen off it” (i.e. because no one has ever tried to sit on it) (431. I. 92).

10. When a lazy child, about to be sent out upon an errand, protests that it does not know where the person to whom the message is to be sent lives, and consequently cannot do the errand, the mother remarks threateningly, “I’ll show where Abraham ground the mustard,” i.e. “I give you a good thrashing, till the tears come into your eyes (as when grinding mustard)” (431. I. 105).

11. When a child complains that a sister or brother has done something to hurt him, the mother’s answer is, “Look out! He shall have water in the cabbage, and go barefoot to bed” (431. I. 106).

12. Sometimes their parents or elders turn to children and ask them “if they would like to be shown the Bremen geese.” If the child says yes, he is seized by the ears and head with both hands and lifted off the ground. In some parts of Germany this is called “showing Rome,” and there are variants of the practice in other lands (431. II. 14).

13. When a child complains of a sore in its eye, or on its neck, the answer is: “That will get well before you are a great-grandmother” (431. II. 50).

14. When one child asks for one thing and another for something else, the mother exclaims petulantly, “One calls out ‘lime,’ the other ‘stones.’” The reference is to the confusion of tongues at Babel, which is assumed to have been of such a nature that one man would call out “lime,” and another “stones” (431. II. 53).

15. When a child asks for half a slice of bread instead of a whole one, the mother may say, “Who doesn’t like a whole, doesn’t like a half either” (431. II. 43).

16. When a child says, “That is my place, I sat there,” the reply is, “You have no place; your place is in the churchyard” (i.e. a grave) (431. II. 76).

When the child says “I will,” the mother says threateningly, “Your ‘will’ is in your mother’s pocket.” It is in her pocket that she carries the rope for whipping the child. Another locution is, “Your will is in the corner” (i.e. the corner of the room in which stands the broomstick) (431. II. 81).

These specimens of the interchange of courtesies between the child and its parent or nurse might be paralleled from our own language; indeed, many of the correspondences will suggest themselves at once. The deceits practised in the Golden Age of childhood resemble those practised by the gods in the Golden Age of the world, when divine beings walked the earth and had intercourse with the sons and daughters of men.

 

“Painted Devils.”

Even as the serpent marred the Eden of which the sacred legends of the Semites tell, so in the folk-thought does some evil sprite or phantom ever and anon intrude itself in the Paradise of childhood and seek its ruin.

Shakespeare has well said:—

 

“Tis the eye of childhood That fears a painted devil,”

 

and the chronicle of the “painted devils,” bogies, scarecrows, et id genus omne, is a long one, whose many chapters may be read in Ploss, Hartland, Henderson, Gregor,